Monday, November 09, 2026

Was Rama right

 The other eternal question stems from the Indian epic Ramayana, after all things endured by Sita, why did Rama decide to send her off to forest.

About a decade and half ago, I was doing this course on Krishna avatara with Late Rajima and I can’t think of a better scholar than her in Indian epics. I took the courage to ask her but didn’t know where to start. I was beating around the bush to ask her and she said “ask whatever it is directly”.

Me: was Rama not at fault for exiling Sita

Rajima: your generation of live in relationships and multiple partners and so on will never understand Rama and will keep blaming him

At that moment, I was confused and didn’t understand what she was saying.

Fast forward to today, a memory flashed across to me, I was in grade 6 or so and me and my friend were arguing that the embracing scenes between hero and heroine in a movie are shot without them embracing in front of the camera.

Meaning, one can argue that our back ground was conservative enough that we couldn’t comprehend a unknown male and female embrace even for acting.

Now, if I were to extrapolate to few thousand years backwards, I think I get my answer.

That said, I still don’t know if Rama was right.

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